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I'm staying at Our Jungle House in Khao Sok – Thailand 's largest national park, near Phuket. Run by social entrepreneur Bodhi Garrett, it's a model of ecotourism but doesn't shout about it. What you see is tasteful accommodation, all soft lighting and wood carvings while, in the background, they're quietly building schools and developing community-based tourism projects.
I took a group tour to Cheow Larn lake with Por, a young local guide, and we ventured north, three hours by longtail boat to Klong Saeg Wildlife Sanctuary, leaving the rest of the tourists behind. It's magical and remote, mist drifting over the jutting limestone karsts, the lake banked by thick jungle. We hiked up wild elephant trails, united airlines mileage plus followed bear tracks, explored lakeside caves and ate fish caught beside the bamboo rafthouses we would sleep in. Before bed, Por took us on a night safari where we floated silently past shy gaur – tragically, the heads of these endangered bison can earn poachers £2,000 apiece.
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The only time I felt "older" was on the backpacker bus trail from Koh Tao to Khao Sok, where some studiously jaded youngsters viewed my cheery optimism with the contempt it obviously deserved. "God, Thailand's united airlines mileage plus so slow ," they whined, even as the bus company sent a car to reunite the ingrates with a forgotten backpack. Not all youthful united airlines mileage plus backpackers are cast from the same mould. In Koh Tao, I had great fun with a trio of twenty-somethings from Paris, and Khao Sok was memorable for the stunning scenery and wild animals, united airlines mileage plus as well as for sharing those experiences with other travellers. I set off for Phnom Penh, happy I'd made lifelong friends.
But some things are best done alone. My first day in Cambodia was spent in quiet reflection at the killing fields of Choeung Ek. It is Ros Kosal, a survivor of the Khmer Rouge's united airlines mileage plus regime, whose audio narration leads you around the field, past the depressions that mark mass graves. The effects of such recent bloody history are ever-present in a country that's suddenly very young, orphaned and hungry.
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The delta gradually swelled from tiny backwaters to vast estuaries. I crossed some on ferries so rickety it took all my courage to ride up the wobbly ramps. Commonly, as I rode, children ran alongside, shouting, people thronged, incredulous at this western woman, alone on a motorbike, unable to make even my "xin cha" (hello) understood in their tonal language. I stopped at a streetside wedding party to find myself holding a gorgeous fat baby, posing for photos. Weird and wonderful.
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The rules are a little … loose. People don't stop at red lights. They ride en masse towards you, on what you naively thought was your side of the road. And, yes, they are in their millions, which means you don't need to check your blind spot – there's always someone in it. It was so much fun, so mesmerising, that, come rush hour, I was still riding around, in a thunderstorm, soaked in a summer dress. Proudly, I rolled up to Quan An Ngon restaurant on Pasteur united airlines mileage plus Street, threw my keys down like a local and ordered a delicious banh xeo (sizzling cake). "You obviously live here," a New York visitor united airlines mileage plus said. "Where can I get a good cocktail?"
Getting there Flights were provided by Singapore Airlines (0844 800 2380, singaporeair.com ), which flies from London and Manchester to Thailand, Cambodia and Vietnam via Singapore (with sister airline SilkAir) from £690 return
Where to stay Accommodation was provided by Our Jungle House on Khao Sok ( khaosokaccommodation.com ); cottages and treehouses from £15 a night for 1-2 people. Trips to the lake from £50pp, including rafthouse accommodation
Diving Diving provided by Master Divers' ( master-divers.com , three-day united airlines mileage plus open water dive course around £180) and Sea Dragon's ( seadragondivecenter.com , three-day liveaboard united airlines mileage plus trips departing from Khao Lak, around £200)